Strengths and good news about ADHD

Can AD/HD be a strength?

Despite the large number of problems that necessitates psychotherapy, AD/HD does not have to be completely negative. Some children with AD/HD are able to embrace their symptoms and find the unique benefits the disorder offers. When parents and children change their perspective, some of the symptoms of AD/HD can become assets to be harnessed instead of symptoms to try to eliminate.

AD/HD children often have a very unique way of perceiving things. They think of things that no one else could ever possibly entertain. Today’s business model of “thinking outside the box” is made for the AD/HD person. While schools may not value the entrepreneurial spirit of an AD/HD child, there are many arenas outside of school that do.

List the symptoms your child exhibits and consider how each might be channeled into a talent, hobby, or strength. Video game obsession can be developed into a hobby through graphic arts and computer classes. A bizarre sense of humor can find a home in comedy and acting workshops. Socially isolated children who find solace in books can make social connections in a book club.

Turning a symptom into a strength can change the way you respond to your child. Your child will find increased happiness and esteem from this approach.

What is the good news about AD/HD?

The future of your child may look rather bleak at first glance of the research findings. School failure, poor social relationships, smoking, drugs, alcohol, and car accidents, among the other negative outcomes, paint a rather grim outlook. Meant to inform rather than depress you as a parent, these statistics provide you with the harsh reality of what can happen to your child. These findings should prompt you into action to obtain all the services your child needs and to stick with them for as long as your child is displaying symptoms.

While the statistics bring bad news, they simultaneously bring good news.

Approximately:

• 30 percent of children with AD/HD no longer have the disorder as a teen.

• 68 percent do not run away from home.

• 87 percent graduate high school.

• 87 percent do not engage in multi-drug use.

• 66 percent do not abuse alcohol.

• 65 percent of boys and 86 percent of girls do not develop a drug abuse disorder.

• 60 percent who smoke cigarettes quit by adulthood.

• 80 percent of teens do not engage in criminal behavior.

• 63 percent of adults with AD/HD do not engage in criminal activities.

The good news is that with treatment and your diligent efforts your child has a good chance of having a positive outcome.